All Relationships End – Goodbye 2014

As I was winding up business for 2014 and working on goals and visions for 2015, I thought about the ending of our relationship with 2014. It occurred to me: All relationships end either through death or breakup. If you go into a relationship knowing Continue reading All Relationships End – Goodbye 2014

My New Hire Looked Better on Paper. Now What?

Employment of humans is tricky business. An interview is like dating. We need to be a detective, psychologist, analyst, motivator, and entrepreneur. In short, an all-around sleuth. Here’s a question I just got from a reader. Today I’ll handle the “What now?”  I wrote earlier Continue reading My New Hire Looked Better on Paper. Now What?

It’s no big thing…

Valentines and elections, Marriages and lives … All are lost from little things, not big. Each decision we make impacts our lives for the long haul. We are the only person in the world who is 100% impacted by every single choice we make. My Continue reading It’s no big thing…

New You Resolutions

So – Day 13 of the New Year. How you doin’ with those resolutions? If they were written out of frustration with yourself, I’ll bet you aren’t on track. It works better to write goals in anticipation of great new changes rather than from being Continue reading New You Resolutions

Can I have a Do-over?

She sat across from me at the restaurant and went down the list of her failures: in relationships, career, family, personal goals. Girlfriends do this with each other … we listen and let our friends vent. It’s good for us: raises the oxytocin levels and Continue reading Can I have a Do-over?

Secrets to Getting Where You Want to Go

Yesterday we talked about “Today is Someday” and I promised some secrets for making things happen in your life. Here are the first three: Secret One:  Hang out with people who do what you want to learn. If you have children you’ve told them, “Be Continue reading Secrets to Getting Where You Want to Go

Start Fresh ~ Clear the Clutter

Take some time today to make a sweep of your home. Look for items you can recycle, re-gift, give to charity, toss or shred. The easiest way to do this is to give yourself a time limit. No more than 2 hours to start. Otherwise Continue reading Start Fresh ~ Clear the Clutter

Give Yourself Permission

Stop second guessing yourself. Give yourself permission to want what you want. Get out of your own way! IMHO people don’t get their Resolutions because they THINK they are supposed to write things that everyone else writes. Continue reading Give Yourself Permission

Putting Legs on Your Resolutions

A Resolution is not an end in itself, it’s a roadmap for the journey. You have chosen your destination. You have declared your intention. You have laid the map out on the table. Now what? Continue reading Putting Legs on Your Resolutions