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		<title>Married to Pain</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2012 17:02:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We are so attached to our wounds. Many years ago I read a Discover Magazine article that said we tend to be proud of our wounds. We drag them out and show them to each other as badges of honor and proof we&#8217;ve fought the good fight. The articles are squirreled away somewhere. I was [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&#038;blog=9795968&#038;post=1575&#038;subd=bethterry&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>More Secrets to Getting Where you Want to Go</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2012/04/25/more-secrets-to-getting-where-you-want-to-go/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Apr 2012 20:36:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When we talked about Today is Some Day, I promised you 5 secrets to get where you want to go. Here are 4 and 5: Secret Four Listen to your echoes. Your brain gives you messages all day long. You’ve gotten into your car and felt that “I forgot something&#8221; feeling. If you listened, you [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&#038;blog=9795968&#038;post=1562&#038;subd=bethterry&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Secrets to Getting Where You Want to Go</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2012/04/24/secrets-to-getting-where-you-want-to-go/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Apr 2012 22:29:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[communication. courage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[creating your future]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday we talked about &#8220;Today is Someday&#8221; and I promised some secrets for making things happen in your life. Here are the first three: Secret One:  Hang out with people who do what you want to learn. If you have children you’ve told them, “Be careful who you hang out with. Some day you’ll be [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&#038;blog=9795968&#038;post=1560&#038;subd=bethterry&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Today IS &#8220;Some Day&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2012/04/23/today-is-some-day/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Apr 2012 00:28:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everyone has struggles. Life is process. Life is suffering. Life is untold joy and immeasurable agony&#8230; sometimes all tied up into one. You love your children enough to let them make choices, and you die a thousand deaths when they make the wrong ones. You take risks and you screw up and sometimes you make [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&#038;blog=9795968&#038;post=1557&#038;subd=bethterry&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Friends ARE Benefits</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2012/03/02/friends-are-benefits/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Mar 2012 17:38:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Friends are good for us. You know that. A friend is someone who just accepts you the way you are. And when you aren&#8217;t being yourself, they let you know. Friends are important for survival. They improve our immune system and provide us with biological benefits. Not only do they keep us sane, they boost [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&#038;blog=9795968&#038;post=1539&#038;subd=bethterry&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Trouble is in the Gap</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2012/02/02/the-trouble-is-in-the-gap/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 21:50:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[change]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[We all have Gaps in our lives, and therein lies The Trouble. Some of the Gaps are between: Expectations and Reality Money we have and money we need Information we have and the Facts Intention and Action Ideas and Execution Who we are and Who others think we are The Gap is formed by our [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&#038;blog=9795968&#038;post=1515&#038;subd=bethterry&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Start Fresh ~ Clear the Clutter</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2011/12/31/start-fresh-clear-the-clutter/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Dec 2011 18:32:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Take some time today to make a sweep of your home. Look for items you can recycle, re-gift, give to charity, toss or shred. The easiest way to do this is to give yourself a time limit. No more than 2 hours to start. Otherwise you&#8217;ll get bogged down and will never do this again. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&#038;blog=9795968&#038;post=1474&#038;subd=bethterry&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>3 Things U Need 2 Know</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2011/05/05/3-things-u-need-2-know/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 May 2011 22:07:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[lifelong learning]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you know these Three Things, your life will be more successful, happier, and less stressful. It has taken me decades to figure this out, so let me save you some time&#8230; Spring is Hope. Spring is Renewal and Promise of brighter days. A reminder that dark times do not last, and around the next [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&#038;blog=9795968&#038;post=1331&#038;subd=bethterry&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Bad Boss: Confront or Quit?</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2010/09/23/bad-boss-confront-or-quit/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2010 23:02:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My Colleague and fellow CSP, John Hersey, writes an excellent Leadership Blog. In this edition, he asks what do we do about lousy bosses. I admire John greatly and usually he&#8217;s right on. This time, he essentially says to suck it up or quit&#8230; read his blog here Here&#8217;s my response to John: ~~~~ John [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&#038;blog=9795968&#038;post=1240&#038;subd=bethterry&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>3 Ways to Get Un-Stuck!</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2010/09/12/3-ways-to-get-un-stuck/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Sep 2010 23:39:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You are not alone. Everyone struggles with self-motivation. We all have days when we just can't seem to get things done. Most of us are in overwhelm with the glut of information, the crazy economy, and tryin' to make it through our days. Chin up! You are in good company.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&#038;blog=9795968&#038;post=1231&#038;subd=bethterry&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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