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		<title>Family Holiday Pressure Cooker?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 18:29:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everything is relative, including our relatives. We wish we had a fairytale family where everyone gets along and differences are slight. Unfortunately for many, one day into the holidays there&#8217;s trouble brewing. I know this because a family is made up of humans: ornery, weird, contrary, unpredictable humans. Yes, we are also kind, caring, compassionate [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&amp;blog=9795968&amp;post=1442&amp;subd=bethterry&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 18:30:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s the crazy season! A woman pepper sprays a crowd over a stack of towels at WalMart. A gang lies in wait in the parking lot to mug the &#8220;Black Friday&#8221; shoppers. A rival gang mugs the muggers&#8230; Are you watching the news and shaking your head? Wondering how we can bring back that ol&#8217; [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&amp;blog=9795968&amp;post=1425&amp;subd=bethterry&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>How to Guarantee Your Company Will Fail</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2011/11/13/how-to-guarantee-your-company-will-fail/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2011 18:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[People do stupid things when they are afraid. They pull back resources when they should be reaching out. They make knee-jerk decisions about policies and practices. They allow their fear to overtake courage. The word dis-courage means just that. To dismiss courage. To disassemble courage and strength. As a previous post showed, the real difference [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&amp;blog=9795968&amp;post=311&amp;subd=bethterry&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>3 Things U Need 2 Know</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2011/05/05/3-things-u-need-2-know/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 May 2011 22:07:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you know these Three Things, your life will be more successful, happier, and less stressful. It has taken me decades to figure this out, so let me save you some time&#8230; Spring is Hope. Spring is Renewal and Promise of brighter days. A reminder that dark times do not last, and around the next [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&amp;blog=9795968&amp;post=1331&amp;subd=bethterry&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Wonder of Social Media</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2010/07/11/the-wonder-of-social-media/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 23:47:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Social media has changed the landscape of relationships and connections. Because of social media, I&#8217;ve been delighted to discover the &#8220;other Beth Terry&#8217;s&#8221; out in cyberspace.  We are finding that we are very similar. This morning, I had the distinct pleasure of meeting Beth Terry from FakePlasticFish.com She&#8217;s in Hawaii for a few days and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&amp;blog=9795968&amp;post=1153&amp;subd=bethterry&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Valentine&#8217;s Day and all that</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Feb 2010 02:19:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Exasperated by all the stories of bad online experiences and broken hearts, my friend Julie Theroux and I decided it was high time we combine forces and create another blog to help out the lovelorn. She is a Professional Face Reader and has been called in as an expert by Attorneys, courts, corporations, and individuals [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&amp;blog=9795968&amp;post=906&amp;subd=bethterry&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Terrible Truth About Love</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2009/12/05/the-terrible-truth-about-love/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 05:46:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When we surrender to love, we surrender to our mortality and to our human-ness. It is in these moments that our compassion grows. The lovers of the world become the conscience for our world community. In our knowing about love and loss, social justice is formed.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&amp;blog=9795968&amp;post=682&amp;subd=bethterry&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>7 Phrases to Avoid at Thanksgiving Dinner</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2009/11/26/7-phrases-to-avoid-at-thanksgiving-dinner/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 16:53:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, how do you have a Happy Thanksgiving? How do you navigate the treacherous waters of the Holidays with most of your hair intact and your brain cells un-fried? Get thee centered. Take a deep breath. Don’t impose your memories on anyone else, and deflect others when they try to impose old baggage on you. Have a plan.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&amp;blog=9795968&amp;post=651&amp;subd=bethterry&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>What Matters Most</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2009/10/30/what-matters-most/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 18:43:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s important to remember what really matters: · The love &#38; support of friends and family · A healthy body &#38; mind · A Resilient Spirit Each of these feeds the other, and without them we are poor, indeed. No amount of money can buy those things. My recent surgery afforded me a reminder of [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&amp;blog=9795968&amp;post=641&amp;subd=bethterry&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Quotables ~ Relationships</title>
		<link>http://cactuswrangler.com/2009/10/28/quotables-relationships/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 05:29:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Terry, CSP</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Money is a powerful aphrodisiac. But flowers work almost as well.&#8221; &#8211; Robert Heinlein &#8220;Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.&#8221; &#8211; Antoine de Saint-Exupery &#8220;When the happiness of another person becomes as essential to yourself as your own, then the state of love [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cactuswrangler.com&amp;blog=9795968&amp;post=607&amp;subd=bethterry&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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