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How Many Christmases Do You Get?

December 25, 2012

Little Alisha wanted to know how old I was, so instead of asking directly, she crawled up on my lap on the swing and asked me, “Aunty Beth, how many Christmases have you had?” When I told her, she thought about that for awhile, then asked, “Well, how many do you get?”

Out of the mouths of babes…

If we think of our age or the future in terms of years, it seems a long time. Taking an event that happens once a

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas!

year, however, changes the dynamic.

Many years ago I was struggling with some personal issues and didn’t feel like decorating the house for the holidays. It seemed to be such a waste of time and energy. You decorate only to undecorate a few weeks later. For what?

Then a friend who was a chef at a local restaurant was stabbed to death by one of his workers. I thought about his family and the families of all the people who had lost someone during the year. I wondered if they would have done Christmas differently last year had they known it was their last one together.

I summoned up all my holiday spirit and decorated the entire house. We never know when it is our last one. Funny, decorating the house lifted me out of my funk and gave me quiet pleasure every night when I turned off all but the Christmas tree lights and the little light behind the manger scene.

If you slept in a warm, dry bed last night, you are blessed. If you had food in your cupboard this morning, you are blessed. If you have at least one person who loves you and misses you if you aren’t together, you are blessed.

Celebrate the little things. They are the building blocks of your life. Remember those who went on ahead of us, but don’t pine for the past or worry about the future. We have these holiday breaks in our lives to Remember Who We Are, and to celebrate the light that surrounds us.

Christmas Blessings,


© 2012 Beth Terry  Seminars, Inc. All Rights Reserved

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  1. December 28, 2012 4:53 pm

    My Dear Beth, we seem to be resonating this Christmas – I would love to meet with you sometime after the holidays – we are leaving for HI on Jan. 14 so it might have to be after we return to AZ end of Feb. I owe you breakfast! Meanwhile, have a happy holiday and know there is one Cowgirl who loves another Cowgirl.

    • December 28, 2012 6:13 pm

      Lee – you are so right! And you are off to my former home! Enjoy your trip to Hawaii and let me know if you need any recommendations while there. I have a Hawaii Insider page on my website right here:

      Ha’ouli Makahiki Hou! (Happy New Year)

  2. December 25, 2012 11:56 pm

    Happy Christmas, Beth Tgxx

    • December 26, 2012 9:05 am

      Thank you Tricia! And Happy Christmas to you as well.
      Hope it was all you had hoped for.

  3. December 29, 2012 5:49 pm

    Thank you Karen for sharing my blog with your readers!
    Happy New Year!


  1. How many Chritmases do you get?

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